How often do we all see the same scenario acted out – again and again.  The loud guys – the ones that have a good line – often seem to get the girls, while the real keepers – The Nice Guys – somehow seem to go unnoticed.  No matter what Cosmo says the same thing applies to women.   Every man has a nice guy inside – we just typically keep him locked up until the second date.  

Men, especially with other men, are often very unapproachable by any but the bravest of women.   We suggest that an approachable demeanor and warm smile is far superior to being cool.   Remember best hunters do not pursue; they wait.  

That said, the reverse happens every Friday night across the country.   The nice guys “sit it out” while the aggressive ones force the envelope.  Yes, the most observant female eyes will seek out the real sleepers in the crowd.   Nonetheless, the world is not populated by solely “keenest women”.  Therefore, salesmanship still counts above coolness or a ‘desperately bored’ look.  That is why we say ‘wakeup, Mr. Nice Guy’ and push the envelope.  A thorough understanding of these principles might, indeed, help to get ex back.  If you are trying to recover a broken relationship, your chance to win your ex back, will be heightened by knowing all these things.

If you are a nice guy and this seems a little uncomfortable for you, try going out with a couple other guys – with at least one of them being a ‘Hunter’ type.  This is the cool guy who seems to end up dancing with every doll in the place.   These guys, amazingly, are often not even decent dancers.   Their primary talent – balls.  They simply have the guts to let it all hang out and put themselves out there – for all to see and gawk at.  This might seem like overkill or needless self-sacrifice but it simply works. 

More, than anything else, women love a guy who is gregarious, a great conversationalist, and a great dancer.  If you are in the opposite camp – the one populated with sideline observers who never dance, introduce themselves, or even speak with anyone in the whole place for the entire evening – perhaps it is time to break with tradition, tighten your belt and jump in the water.

If you are attempting to get ex back from a breakup caused by the absence of these things, take heed.