It is a fact that 3 quarters of all the break ups are started by girls. That’s right, it’s the girls who usually call the relationship off, and guys generally want to stick together. So for all those guys who want their ex back, this article is for you.

The first thing you should think is whether you actually want to get her back. You might just want to keep things simple. It might be too much effort to get over the current relatioship and find a new one that you might just want to stay together even if the things aren’t so great. Even if the relationship is just Ok, that is more often enough for the guys.

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Cynicism also plays a part here. Sometimes people are just plain “world weary” and don’t believe anything can be perfect, so just settle for what they have.

Despite this, it’s important, before you do anything, to consider if the split is a blessing in disguise. Maybe it gives you a opportunity for a chance for the better. If you think that it is better to move on after all then stop reading here. However, if you seriously want your girl back, read on.

The next thing you should do is find out whether she still loves you. Even if she left you, that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love you. She might have just acted on an impulse.

If you think that she still has feelings for you, resist sending her a lot of text messages and phone calls. If you act like a stalker you will lose her for good.

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What you have to do is very hard, but necessary. You must not contact her. Get out there, and have some fun. Make it look as though you are accepting of the situation (even if you’re not!). Even date some girls that are shared friends, but treat them as friends. That will signal to your ex that you still want them, even though you are dating others.

While doing all the above you will have a ample time to get your mind settled. Getting out there and seeing people will also help with the pain. As you find others who want to be with you, your self confidence will return. You will even find that you can think more clearly about your ex and decide whether you want to pursue her or not.

The thing is, if you were just coasting when your girlfriend left, you may now be discovering what you were missing.

However, if you still feel your ex is your soul mate you should pursue her, and the best way to do this is to be a friend. By being there for them, and then progressing to some light hearted meetings or outings you will soon find out if she’s the one, or if you need to move on and her initial moving away was, in fact, a blessing in disguise.

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